I'm Tim Southwell, counsellor and therapist for individuals and couples, Gottman Method trained. Eleven years in practice has taught me one thing above all: the argument is rarely about the thing itself. Underneath the communication that's broken down, the distance that's crept in, the stress or worry that follows you home, there's a pattern, and patterns can change.
We set goals that matter to you, build on what's already strong, and keep it warm, direct and practical. No blame, no sides, whether you come as a couple or on your own.